I need to follow my three keys to success while working with my bandmate; stay calm, forgive mistakes, & talk positively.
I need to contact him because my buddy and I are going to fall apart if not, & fall apart absolutely soon & absolutely quickly, and he is terrible with communication & it is finally reaching a boiling point with me. I’ve tried over & over to communicate openly with him but he just clams up & does not say a word. Imagine having a fiance like this, which I’m sure several have, & trying to resolve troubles in the marriage. My cooling specialist neighbor had the same problem with her partner & she ended up leaving him in the end & finding someone she clicked with better, which happened to be the heating rep in the business where she worked. I really don’t want to have to start over in a band because my buddy and I are doing wonderful on the stage, but when everything else is not so wonderful then things start to fall apart at the seams. My air conditioner is falling apart too, thanks to me not cleaning the HEPA filter on a regular basis, heck I don’t guess I cleaned the thing for a year or more at one point, & now it is now working anymore. I learned a lesson from that & now know that repair is substantial for systems like this & next time I will do a better job at keeping it clean. I will absolutely just get an Heating, Ventilation, & A/C repair contract & let the pros clean it for me.