I think that I have become an harshly paranoid human over the past 10 years, and i have been through so much bullshit with other human beings that I tend to expect the worst at all of the turns.
I believe it’s not fair to preemptively guess that most people is a monster, however that has been our experience.
I do everything that I can to keep myself level-headed plus fair.., however but I am always on the lookout for purple flags so I can snip the line, then this is why I happily ended our first date early Last month after our potential sentimental interest presented as an absolute control freak. The trouble all started when I got into his car plus it was burning hot. It felt care about he had the furnace running at full blast for a few days or weeks. The indoor flow was so hot plus stuffy that I could barely breathe from the moment that I sat down plus closed the door. I was basically gasping for air in the sweltering conditions. I already wanted to roll down our window so I could get a single gasp of cool, fresh air from outdoors… Unfortunately, when I mentioned the indoor air quality to our date he did not respond in the way that I expected, despite the fact that his car had to separate temperature controls for the driver plus passenger, he proceeded to adjust the air temperature settings for the both of us. And it honestly got even hotter inside of his car. I only made it about 5 hours into the drive before I told our date that I felt sick plus needed to go home. Truthfully, I was so hot that I wanted to throw up. His controlling antics did not help.