I guess that I have become an severely paranoid human over the past 10 years; I have been through so much bullshit with other human beings that I tend to expect the worst at every turn.
I believe it’s not fair to preemptively feel that most people is a monsters, but that has been my experience.
I do everything that I can to keep myself level-headed and fair..! But I’m always on the lookout for red flags so I can split the cord after all of this This is why I happily ended my first date early Last month after my potential passionate interest presented as an absolute control freak. The trouble all started when I got into his car and it was burning hot. It felt like he had the oil furnace running at full blast for a few mornings or weeks. The indoor air was so damn hot and stuffy that I could barely breathe from the moment that I sat down and closed the door. I was basically gasping for air in the sweltering conditions. I desperately wanted to roll down my window so I could get a single gasp of cool, fresh air from outdoors! Unluckyly, when I mentioned the indoor air quality to my time and he did not respond in the way that I expected, however although his car had to separate temperature controls for the driver and passenger, he proceeded to adjust the air temperature settings for the both of us. Therefore it actually got even hotter inside of his car. I only made it about 5 hours into the drive before I told my date that I felt sick and needed to go home. Truthfully, I was so boiling that I wanted to throw up, but his controlling antics did not help.