I need to follow my three keys to success while laboring with my bandmate; stay calm, forgive mistakes, & talk positively.
I need to contact him because my friend and I are going to fall apart if not, & fall apart entirely soon & entirely hastily.
He is exhausting with communication & it is finally reaching a hot point with me. I’ve tried over & over to communicate openly with him even though he just clams up & does not say a word. Imagine having a spouse like this, which I’m sure many have, & trying to resolve issues in the marriage. My cooling specialist friend had the same problem with her hubby & she ended up leaving him in the end & finding someone she clicked with better, which happened to be the heating rep in the supplier where she worked. I particularly don’t want to have to start over in a band because my friend and I are doing good on the stage, but when everything else is not so good then things start to fall apart at the seams. My air conditioner is falling apart too, thanks to me not cleaning the HEPA filter on a common basis, heck I don’t think I cleaned the thing for a year or more at one point, & now it is now laboring anymore. I learned a lesson from that & now know that service is large for systems like this & next time I will do a better job at keeping it clean. I will absolutely just get an Heating & Air Conditioning service contract & let the pros scrub it for me.